His Hers Money

Everyone in the personal finance blogosphere has a budget or has written about budgeting many times so I’m sure this isn’t a new concept to anyone reading this. For us here at HisHersMoney this is the first time we are working on a joint budget.

This is really just our first cut at things and I’m sure there are many places we could really trim the fat. A few things I would like to point out:

1. We have given ourselves $100 a week as our own money. Each can do whatever they would like with their money no questions asked. But when it’s gone, it’s gone. If there’s something we want and it costs over $100 then it will require a little saving.
   • For instance, in July I (Hers) plan on going to the beach for a long weekend with some girlfriends. The costs will include the shared hotel room, gas, food and entertainment. I will need to continue to save up over the next month to cover my trip expenses.
2. There’s no credit card usage. (Nothing else to really say here)
3. Not counting the cars we have roughly $15k in debt. I’ll do an exact calculation and payment plan in a few days. We currently have $1100 a month budgeted to go towards this. I expect that we should be able to pay more each month by cutting back in some other areas but I know that at least this minimum amount is budgeted.
4. Both cars are scheduled to be paid off within a year and a half so we are most likely going to let that debt and payments ride it’s course. The interest rates are decent on them and we have absolutely no intentions of buying any new vehicles at this point.
5. Her monthly income shown is after a $1200/month 401k contribution
6. This should easily increase our net worth by about $55,000 over the next year. Good yes, but not great, not exceptional, not on track to being where I would like to be……

So, the basics are shown below. We welcome and feedback, questions or comments you might have as we work to refine out budget. I will be doing a follow up post on the savings part which we did some updates on as a result of a recent financial advisor visit (yes I found a new advisor)as well as a post regarding an updated debt summary which we really need to look at ourselves.

Well, the remaining balance was only $311 but it felt so good when I made the last payment online today it felt so good. I had the payments set up to debit out of my checking account automatically each month which made it really easy to avoid any late payments or missed payments. Unfortunately having the payment taken out each month automatically also makes it hard to make extra payments since you aren’t making a manual payment each month.

The key for me was having online access to my account where I could make extra payments online easily and quickly. Every once in awhile I would go online to check my balance and would be compelled to make some sort of extra payment while I was one there.

So, in the last few months I have been making payments in excess of $300 and now it’s GONE!!!! One down and three to go! So the most important things to do:

1. Set up your payments automatically, even one late or missed payment can negate a entire month’s payment.

2. Set up online access to your account to view it at all times.

3. Log on online and view it often, while you’re there make an extra payment!

After reading about the Debt Snowflaking process over on I’ve Paid for This Twice Already I decided to give it a try. If you look on my ABOUT page you will see a simple break down of my current debts. I basically have some student load debt and my car loan. My car loan is manageable with a payment of $455 and a balance of about $8100 currently. My student loans, while manageable, are really just getting on my nerves!

I really had every intention of getting them paid off within ten years of graduating. That ten years is pretty much up now, and they’re not paid off. One of them is my portion of my grad school. My company paid the difference ( I still have to finish my thesis and pay $3300 upon it’s submittal, but I have that money in savings) which really helped out.

I still have about $5500 left in undergraduate loan debt. I basically want this debt gone NOW! Even though my graduate school loan has the highest interest at 11% and I’ve paid it down from $9000 to $5700 it just wasn’t giving me the emotional satisfaction I really need in my debt repayment process.

I’ve really never made any huge effort to pay extra on my student loans before now so I have a little catching up to do. I attacked the two smallest ones which we both just under $1000 each. In the past few months I’ve been making extra payments on both of them and now I only owe $310 on one of them and $385 on the other. I see no reason why both of these can’t be paid off next month since my regular payment would be around $100 each anyways. I know it will be a great feeling to just finish both of them up.

So, what is my personal recommendation? Pay your lowest debt off first to get the feeling of accomplishment and then re-evaluate from there. I think I will work on my highest interest one once these two small ones are done to reduce my interest.

I am a little behind that I don’t have a good automated way to track my money. I literally work with an old fashioned check book register and so far it’s worked pretty well for me. Every time I get paid I write it in and subtract all of the bills that have to be paid from that check and then I know exactly how much I have left over. I have all of my savings and investments taken out automatically so whatever is left over, no matter how much or how little that check, that’s what I have for spending money and money to pay extra on my bills.

This month was pretty average in term of extra money so I made paid a little bit extra on my debt.

Student Loan 1: Due $78 Paid $278

Student Loan 2: Due $139 Paid $138

Student Loan 3: Due $118 Paid $118

Student Loan 4: Due $99 Paid $100

Car Loan: Due $455 Paid $455

So, it wasn’t too much extra paid but hey, $200 extra is $200 extra! My goal for next month is to double that and pay $400 extra. We’ll see how I do!

Today I finally took the time to properly fill out the information for my profile on NetworthIQ. As you can see from either there or my badge to the right, I have a negative net worth. This is not surprising to me as I know that I have too much debt (especially credit cards) and that I have not bothered to start saving for retirement. That last part is obviously a mistake even though I should be getting a military pension starting at age 43. Hers and I actually had a tiff about this the other night. I was trying to figure out the current ‘value’ of my retirement to include in my net worth. She was insisting that until I was fully vested, that it was worth nothing.

I now have seen the light and realize that to be the case. Until I hit my 20 years of active federal service, I get nothing at age 43. Heck, I don’t even get the partial National Guard retirement at 60 unless I complete another 7 1/2 years. Obviously I was counting my chickens before they were hatched. My plan is to continue paying down my credit card debt and building my emergency fund. Once I have that rainy day money fully in place I will open a Roth IRA and start fully funding it. Yes I could pay down debt faster instead but the compound interest will finally start working for my retirement and my highest interest rate right now is still only 9.9% on my credit card from USAA.

Hello everyone and let me start off by welcoming you to our site. First, a little background: As our name says we are a His and Hers. We are in our early 30’s and starting off a life together as a “couple”. Being that we are already in our 30’s we both already have our own finances and lives so now we are in the process of merging them. Both of us bring some sort of debt to the table (who doesn’t these days), Hers has these pesky student loans and a car loan and Him has student loans, credit cards and a car note. Could it be any more fun than that???We live in the Washington DC area so housing is astronomical (not saying it’s cheap anywhere these days)! We rent an apartment in a high rise and the idea of buying what seems like 14 square feet for a cool million is not even in our near future!!! Both His and Hers have decent jobs and make a decent living and try very hard to keep our spending within our means.So here’s my current debt situation, His will post his separately and we will both cover assets in a later post. We are really just starting down the path of combining our finances so you, our readers, will be learning real time!